Why do men run away from problems? Why do all men run away from me at the peak of a relationship? Psychologist Nadezhda Vladimirovna Meshcheryak answers the question

05.11.2022

My husband is running away from me! We have been living together for 3 years, in the barge - 2. I am sure that he does not have another woman and I do not doubt his love at all, but he leaves home for a day, for example, without warning, then he comes and starts weaving some kind of utter nonsense , although in fact I know that he is sitting at a friend’s office at the computer. But what scares me is 1 - that he’s lying, 2 - that he doesn’t call and doesn’t warn him that he’ll be delayed and doesn’t seem to interest him, that I’m worried about him and 3 - I tried to persuade him, threatened him with divorce, tried after another disappearance to pretend that nothing happened. didn’t happen and surrounded him with attention, spent time together - doesn’t help!!! At the moment we have a temporary truce, but I no longer consider it necessary to communicate with my husband about my leisure time. He is offended that I go to the cinema with my friend, and not with him, I can come from friends after 00.00. And the main thing is that I calmed down for myself and decided to part with this person if everything continues like this without changes. Is this really where our story ends? To complete the picture, everything is very good in bed, when we are together we laugh, joke, hug, etc. He admires my “unearthly beauty” and bright mind, I also often compliment him and praise him. Why is he running from me? He doesn’t answer this question - he doesn’t want to or doesn’t know...

And also, if you know, Natalya Alexandrovna, a good family psychologist in Yekaterinburg, I would be grateful for the recommendation.

Katerina, Ekaterinburg, 22 years old

Family psychologist's answer:

Hello, Katerina.

Unfortunately, I don’t know a good family psychologist in your city, but I think that you probably have such specialists. You just have to look. After reading your letter, I immediately looked at the age. It seems to me that this may be the main problem. If your husband is not much older than you, then perhaps he just really wants to be a boy sometimes without obligations. And here one of the main indicators that will help you figure it out and make a decision is your relationship. If you have pleasant communication with jokes, mutual compliments, a desire to hug and good sex, then your problems are more like growing pains in young couples. Therefore, maybe you should not isolate yourself now, often go to the cinema and visit without your husband. You may need to spend some time apart, but don't overdo it. As practice shows, breaking is always easier than building. Just from your letter, I cannot say how long the so-called growing pains may last. For some couples, it is cured after building a house or giving birth to a child, for some in connection with moving to a new apartment, making new friends, and for some it goes away simply because youthful skin problems.

Sincerely, Natalya Aleksandrovna PANFILOVA.

Good afternoon

To be honest, I'm desperate. I do not know what to do. Every time in my personal life the same situation is repeated. Men leave me without even explaining the reason! At first I didn’t pay attention to it, but now I started to think about it.

Recently I met a man who I really liked and everything seemed to be fine with us, he said that he wanted to be with me. I felt that he needed me, but he also abandoned me. I tried to find out why he did this, and he said that he had simply lost the point of being with me, that he was letting me go.

A friend advised me to contact you. He says maybe it's the evil eye or something like that. I just don’t know what to do anymore!

Thank you in advance for your help!

Hello, Ksenia!

In your case, it is difficult to determine why your relationships with men are the way they are. The reason may be either within you, or something outside is preventing you from building a long-term relationship.

Analyze all previous relationships: maybe you are making some mistakes that provoke men to leave you? Maybe there is something in your behavior that repels and frightens men? Are you rushing your partners into marriage too much? Think carefully and perhaps you will understand that you need to change something in yourself.

The reason for the current situation may be negativity, which is induced from the outside or by yourself (it often happens that a person imposes black energy on himself).

Ritual to attract men

In this case, you need to perform a ritual that will help you remove the negative aura and attract a loved one into your life who will stay with you for a long time.

For this you will need two church candles.

On the first day of the full moon, at midnight, sit on the floor so that the moonlight falls on you. Place candles on your sides. First light the candle located on the left and read the plot 12 times:

“Fire, father, golden bee,

Give me peace and protect me from evil,

Enlighten my head

Free me from bad thoughts,

Bad thoughts burn,

Help good thoughts to come into being,

Deliver me from mental anguish,

Direct me into joy and happiness.

While this fire is burning,

Let everything that is bad in me burn out,

And when it goes out, I will live with new strength.”

Then wait for the candle to burn out. After this, light the candle located to your right and read the words 12 times:

"I'll take my candle

I want to ask:

The betrothed-mummer

My long-awaited

Give me my lada,

Bring me to the porch

Bring me under the window

Show me the path to my dear!”

Wait for the candle to go out. From the next day you will begin a new stage of life. Your energy will be cleared, your femininity and sexuality will awaken, and you will be able to attract the man you need.

Why do all men run away from me at the peak of a relationship?

Hello, dear Friends! This article was written to help the fair half of humanity. Question from our reader with the wonderful name Lyubov: In my relationships with men, the same situation is constantly repeated: a man disappears at the peak of a relationship, simply disappears without explanation. I understand that the problem is in me, but I don’t know how to solve this problem.

I received a lot of letters with similar content in my mail.

The reasons for this situation may be different; it is impossible to list them all. But there are key problems, which I will talk about in this article.

In general, in the modern world, the relationship between a man and a woman is most often not a relationship between two Souls, united by pure and selfless love, but the mutually beneficial existence of the Ego of one and the other. And so, when a person’s ego, no matter whether it is a man or a woman, grows to exorbitant proportions, big problems begin. In another way, this is called accumulated negative karma, and a person’s personal karma or ancestral karma along the female line, this is the second question.

Now I’ll explain in Russian)) What I’ve seen many times while working with this problem is when a woman complains that all men run away from her and never gets to the point of a serious relationship or marriage.

Why do men run away from me? Key reasons

I’ll answer the specific letter first, then we’ll go through other possible reasons.

One of the reasons: you have a great subconscious desire to tie a man to you and control him, this can manifest itself as the fear of losing him, the fear of being alone, the desire for him to always be close to you and no one else, etc.

Normal men always feel dependent and do not like it when a woman tries to tie him up, lasso him, subjugate him to herself, to her personal power. They feel it even if you don’t do anything like that on a physical level and behave very unobtrusively. But at the same time, subconsciously, a woman’s desire to subordinate a man to her personal feminine power can be enormous.

This is the work of the developed female ego. Our Ego always strives to take power over others. The female ego is above men. Masculine is over women. For what? The answer is simple - to use another to realize your selfish desires, your will. So that he, a man, serves a woman. The male ego accordingly wants women to serve him, fulfilling his desires.

How does an exaggerated female or male Ego manifest itself? In the desire to tie him to oneself, to make him only “mine,” to control all manifestations of another, to deprive him of his freedom, to put him at his service. The female ego wants to appropriate a man for itself, to make him its property - “so that he does only what I want”.

The ego is thirsty! It wants! And these desires are always personal and poorly controlled. As you know, the most important thing for an egoist is himself, this is what can be called “mine.” For a selfish egoist, his personal desires always come first!

I repeat once again, outwardly a woman can behave very modestly, not impose herself, control herself, but at the same time energetically she has already thrown a thousand clamps on the man, has already tied him to her, climbed on his head and will drive him away. And a man will always feel this emotional, spiritual and energetic lack of freedom, the framework into which his powerful female ego wants to drive him.

Moreover, a woman may also not feel what she is doing spiritually and energetically in relation to a man. It simply works out negative karma accumulated in the past (the subconscious mind works). This is dark power, subjugating and enslaving others.

You've probably come across in your life:

Mothers who ruin the destinies of their children, meddling in their fate everywhere, trying to control everything and everyone, trying to subordinate everything in their child’s life to their will, because “They know better how to live...”.
Or tyrant wives next to whom the husband is a beaten dog on a leash that sits, lies, runs and lifts its leg at the command of its owner. In such a couple, it is immediately clear who is the man in the family, who has power and who serves whom. Other.

But the fact is that all these are gross manifestations of the ego, easily recognizable. And there is such a dark, selfish power that is very veiled, and you cannot immediately see it outwardly, especially in yourself. When the Ego has become more sophisticated, highly developed, subtle and the subordination of one’s ego-power to another person outwardly occurs very unobtrusively and carefully.

In general, the nature of the Ego, egoism, and egoist, I think, is clear to many people. The essence of the Ego is, first of all, to “take” and not “give”, to live at the expense of others, to use others for one’s personal interests, selfish motives, etc. And it doesn’t matter at all how a person presents it outwardly. Also, it is important to note here that an egoist is never truly satisfied and happy! Because the feeling of Happiness is given to a person by the Soul, and the Ego is not the light, but the darkened opposite of the divine Soul. Therefore, it is impossible to make a selfish egoist happy!!!

How it works? If an overdeveloped female hungry ego lives and thrives in a woman’s subconscious, she will energetically rip off and devour a man, downloading from him the male energy and vitality for which her ego is hungry. Such a woman strives to attract all the attention of a man to herself, but next to her, men, as a rule, do not feel good or at least uncomfortable.

The ego, if not curbed, grows and turns into a sort of energy monster that lives in a person (a dark entity). This monster begins to destroy a person, his soul, everything bright that is in it. And this ego-monster feeds on the vital energy of other people.

Here's another example. You've probably heard that there are women around whom they die, and after a while all the men die. This is it! These are women with accumulated negative karma towards men. We can say that the ego of such women feeds on men, sucks the life out of them, like a vampire sucks out blood, and throws them out (sends them to the next world). So you need to control such things and cleanse your karma in time, trim your ego and give power to your Soul, and not to egoism.

Another very common manifestation of the female Ego!!!When a woman hangs on a man like a child on a big god. If a woman in her subconscious is inclined to deify a man, this is also a problem. Then she will strive to shift responsibility for herself and her destiny to him in everything, and he will replace God for her. This leads to the highest degree of attachment, and accordingly to the greatest fears of losing this false god (man). Attachment always generates great fear, and fear produces the energy of aggression. And if a woman is mortally afraid of losing her man, she will simply frantically strive to control him in everything and limit his freedom. This is the beginning of the end of the relationship.

For a relationship to be happy, with the development of bright feelings for many years, a man and a woman must stand on equal terms, and God must be above them.

What to do with your hypertrophied female or male ego?

Ego is the reluctance to “give” to oneself and the motive to only “take” from another what you need, this is a consumer attitude towards other people. The female ego is a consumer attitude towards men - “what can I get from him”, “what else has he not given me”, etc.

And men are attracted not to those women who download energy from them, drink all the juices of life and who only want to “take”, but to those who are able to give, give from the bottom of their hearts their love, attention, tenderness, kindness and care, i.e. .d. And this is the key point! If her ego grows in a woman, she loses her feminine principle: her heart hardens, tenderness and care atrophy, kindness is replaced by claims that the man did not give her something, did not do something, always owes her, etc.

After all, the true bright feminine principle comes from the Soul, from Feelings, and not from a selfish ego.

What to do if you find the signs described above in yourself? First of all, you need to sincerely decide on your motives.

Woman is Love, Love is giving! Therefore, start deciding not only what you want to receive from a man, what requirements he should meet, but first of all, what you want to give to your potential or actual beloved man! What do you wish for him? Do you wish him Good, Happiness, Contentment in his heart, success and strength? Wouldn't you like it? What do you want to convey from your heart, from your soul, to give to your soul?

And don’t be lazy, put it in writing! If you work through this, accept it with your soul, positive energy will flow through you towards men and you will become more attractive to them.

Well, your negative karma due to accumulated egoism, or ancestral karma along the female line, of course, also needs to be cleansed. But this must be done competently, with a Spiritual Healer or a Spiritual Mentor, finding out the reasons and roots of the accumulated negative experience in your family.

According to ancestral karma, there can be serious esoteric things that cannot be removed immediately, by desire alone: negative karma from love spells for men, from the destruction of families, from curses, etc. And in this case, you cannot do without a strong Spiritual Healer.

Other reasons why a woman scares men away from her?

Another very common reason is the negative attitude towards men accumulated in a woman’s mind. A negative attitude is distorted beliefs, attitudes, and erroneous ideas. In other words, an inadequate attitude towards men, an inadequate, negative, categorical and stereotypical perception of them, which manifests itself in the well-known programs “all men are ...”, “all men are goats..., bastards...”, etc.

With such a deliberately negative subconscious (or conscious) attitude, a woman simply pushes men away from her. Men, on the other hand, always subconsciously feel negative about themselves and leave. Because they don’t want destruction, because any negativity, especially if there is a lot of it, is sure to destroy. Negativity towards men begins to destroy a man as soon as he comes under the influence of such a woman. For most men who avoid communicating with such a woman, the instinct of self-preservation simply kicks in.

If a woman’s subconscious is filled with a lot of negativity towards men, there is simply no chance of building happy family relationships. Need to unload! Get rid of grievances and complaints against men, remove excessive demands on them, remove consumerism and pride, learn to perceive a man, first of all, as a divine soul, as a person, as an equal.

How to remove the negativity accumulated on men?

Get rid of grievances and complaints. Resentment towards men, if it lives in your heart, destroys your bright feelings, your soul, health and life, attracts troubles into your destiny, destroys the men around you and relationships with him. Work with resentment according to the article - Resentment. How to get rid of resentment?
Write down in your workbook all the complaints against men in general and specific ones. Ask yourself - “Why do I take offense at men?”, “What infuriates, infuriates, and angers me most about men?”. And then, replace all negative beliefs (answers) with adequate, positive ones, those that your bright Soul tells you. And at this moment look at a man as a divine soul, which, just like you, is learning, going through its lessons on Earth, may be imperfect, make mistakes, repent, etc. How to do this correctly - be sure to study in the article How to work with beliefs? How to change your beliefs? Do this task in several passes.
Form the most complete positive attitude towards men. Just write a creative essay on the topic “My best attitude towards men!” Write from the heart, with your heart, as if it is not you who are writing, but your divine Soul dictating to you and conveying its attitude. Draw images as you write and put into it your best attitude towards the most worthy men. Write why you respect and love worthy men, and what you wish for all men without exception. Wish great Good, Nobility and Courage to all men! This will make you attractive to such men :)
Write in writing, in any form, a prayer of repentance before the souls of all the men whom you despised, disrespected, infringed, towards whom you acted unfairly, selfishly, cruelly, with pride and arrogance. Repent before the egregor of men and before God for pride and resentment towards men. How to work with your pride, see the article - How to get rid of Pride and Arrogance?

Believe me, if you sincerely work out your attitude towards men in front of yourself according to all the above recommendations, there will definitely be positive changes!

Of course, there are other reasons, karmic reasons, why men run away from women. But they already need to be looked at individually with a Spiritual Healer or a Mentor. A woman may have serious debts accumulated in relation to men in past incarnations, for example, when a woman used men for her own selfish interests for many lives in a row, and then threw them away as unnecessary. And in this life there is a karmic return, when all the men she meets use her.

Also, you cannot do without a Healer if these are ancestral debts, negative ancestral karma. When, for example, all members of the clan along the female line are blocked from having their personal lives and happy relationships with men. This will happen until the karma of the family is cleared. And in this clan, the first one (that first) should appear who will take on such responsibility and begin to work both for himself and to cleanse the karma of the clan.

A separate large block of reasons for karmic prohibitions on personal life is violations of Feelings, a blocked spiritual heart (Atman). In my opinion, these are generally the most difficult questions and corresponding lessons that a person goes through in the process of his evolution on Earth.

Best regards, Vasily Vasilenko

Have you ever wondered why some people seem to beautiful, communicative and confident women cannot find a permanent man? Why do men leave them, despite their attractive appearance, education and other data? Below I will tell you about two types of behavior when a man runs away from a woman.

As usual, I'll start with a small example. I often give examples from films or books. I do this only because examples from life cannot always be given in such a way that a person does not recognize himself in it, even if the names and some circumstances have been changed. Therefore, if there are episodes in films or books that are almost similar to those found in life, then I present them.

So, two beautiful women and two men they met are sitting at the table. (Russian film, I don’t remember the name) One of them says something like the following phrase: “I’ve been meeting a lot of men lately, but not one of them can show anything good in bed. All the time I remain unsatisfied". Well, she says something similar quite often during the film in conversations with friends, colleagues, acquaintances, etc.

An absolutely life-changing episode. We are talking, of course, not only and not so much about sex. It is enough to make excessive demands on a man in any area, and they will run away from you in droves. In my youth, I myself and my friends ran away more than once when a woman began to make excessive demands in any area of life. Note that it is overstated and inappropriate for the moment.

So, rule one. If a woman makes excessive demands on a man in areas of life that are important to a man, then it is 100% likely that he will run away from her sooner or later. How the escape will manifest itself (complete escape, periodic escape to another woman, psychological alienation in the family, etc.) is not so important.

If we return to the episode from the film, the woman constantly says in conversation that not a single man she has met can satisfy her sexually. Accordingly, if a man is not a master of sports in sexually satisfying women, then he understands that he is unlikely to be able to do anything good and runs away.

This is, of course, a simplified episode. In life, everything is often subtler and not so obvious. However, if a woman has problems keeping a man, then it may very well be that the problem is inflated demands.

The first type of excessive demands - these are demands that almost no man can satisfy.

This usually doesn't happen that often, but still. In this case, men really seem to “bounce away” from a woman after only seeing her or meeting her only a few times. Strangers quite often understand the reason why men leave a woman, but either do not say it out loud, or they say it, but the woman does not want to hear anyone, enthusiastically defends her point of view that “not a single man...”, “ all men..." And, of course, this woman is right. No man in the world can satisfy her requirements, so “All men...”, everything is accurate here.

What requirements for a man are so exaggerated that they cannot be met by anyone? Of course, here we are not talking about high incomes, strength, male beauty or anything else. After all, these requirements can be fulfilled. Even though not every man can do this, almost anyone can earn more money and become more athletic, more confident, and so on.

This is not about this, but about impossible demands in principle. There are quite a lot of such requirements. However, in the context of this topic, one of the most common impossible demands on a man is the demand that he become a woman.

And, of course, we are not talking about him changing his gender. The point is that he begins to think and understand a woman in many situations, just like other women. This requirement, as you understand, is completely impossible to fulfill.

For example, during my married life with my wife, I have probably already remembered more than a hundred of her requests that are important to her and, accordingly, I do something and try to do something. However remember and do- this is not at all the same as understand and do. I’m not saying that I understand my wife, and she doesn’t demand that I understand her in many women’s issues.

Probably confused more than explained. In general, if a woman demands from a man a complete understanding of female psychology, then this is an impossible requirement for any man. You can read more about this in almost every second article on the “Sunny Hands” website in the “ Psychology of men ».

The second type of excessive demands- this is a requirement on an ongoing basis for something that a man could only do under exceptional circumstances, with incredible effort, in his youth, with the help of other people, a lucky coincidence of circumstances, in other conditions, etc.

And yes, the man demonstrated a result or some behavior. It would seem “Hurray!”, the man is great. However, if a woman takes this exceptional result as a basis and begins to demand it in one way or another in everyday life, then the man is constantly under enormous psychological pressure, from which he wants to escape.

It would seem that the woman only encourages the man. “Well, you did it, I saw with my own eyes how you did it several times. So you can do it every day.”

However, this conclusion is incorrect. If a man has done something once, this does not always mean that he can repeat it every day.

What could it be?

— Work, a man at some difficult period in your life worked 20 hours a day, seemingly tirelessly. The conclusion that he can continue to work like this all his life is not necessarily correct.

- Sex. A man caressed a woman for 5 hours and then had sex with her 5 times. This does not mean that he can do this every day.

- Finance. The man earned at one time, or even two, a more significant amount of money than usual. However, the situation may change. Competition is increasing, there is a crisis in the market, age, etc. and repeating the same results may not be feasible.

- Bad habits. If a man did not smoke for 1 day, this does not mean at all that he will be able to do the same for 2 days, and for the next 20 years. The same applies to almost any bad habit.

Such a discrepancy between a woman’s demands and what a man can actually do is often not very clear and hidden. A man may not understand it himself or may not tell the woman. However, if the difference between a woman’s requirements and what a man can do is large enough and manifests itself in areas that are important to a man, then a gap is inevitable.

And the third kind - this is when a woman makes practically no demands on a man.

She practically doesn’t care whether a man achieves something or not. She doesn’t care whether a man is doing something or lying on the couch all day.

In summary, one of the main reasons that a man leaves a woman is that the woman makes inadequate demands on the man. Such demands are not necessarily made in words. These are rather women's expectations, which can manifest themselves in silence, resentment, and something else. Analyze your ideas about men, what you expect from them, and your behavior may change on its own.

In the next part, read about the second main reason that men run away from women. What kind of women do men run away from? Comparison is an unacceptable technique. (Part 2).

Sincerely, Kirranov Rashid.

I received a lot of letters with similar content in my mail.

The reasons for this situation may be different; it is impossible to list them all. But there are key problems, which I will talk about in this article.

Why do men run away from me? Key reasons

I’ll answer the specific letter first, then we’ll go through other possible reasons.

How does an exaggerated female or male Ego manifest itself? In the desire to bind him to himself, to make him only “his own,” to control all manifestations of another, to deprive him of his freedom, to put him at his service. The female ego wants to appropriate a man for itself, to make him its property - “so that he does only what I want”.

You've probably come across in your life:

Mothers who ruin the destinies of their children, meddling in their fate everywhere, trying to control everything and everyone, trying to subordinate everything in their child’s life to their will, because “They know better how to live...”.
Or tyrant wives next to whom the husband is a beaten dog on a leash that sits, lies, runs and lifts its leg at the command of its owner. In such a couple, it is immediately clear who is the man in the family, who has power and who serves whom. Other.

In general, the nature of the Ego, egoism, and egoist, I think, is clear to many people. The essence of the Ego is, first of all, to “take” and not “give,” to live at the expense of others, to use others for one’s personal interests, selfish motives, etc. And it doesn’t matter at all how a person presents it outwardly. Also, it is important to note here that an egoist is never truly satisfied and happy! Because sensation is given to a person by the Soul, and the Ego is not the light, but the darkened opposite of the divine Soul. Therefore, it is impossible to make a selfish egoist happy!!!

The ego, if not curbed, grows and turns into a kind of energy monster that lives in a person (dark). This monster begins to destroy a person, his soul, everything bright that is in it. And this ego-monster feeds on the vital energy of other people.

Another very common manifestation of the female Ego!!!When a woman hangs on a man like a child on a big god. If a woman in her subconscious is inclined to deify a man, this is also a problem. Then she will strive to shift everything onto him, and he will replace God for her. This leads to the highest degree of attachment, and accordingly to the greatest fears of losing this false god (man). Attachment always generates great energy, and fear produces the energy of aggression. And if a woman is mortally afraid of losing her man, she will simply frantically strive to control him in everything and limit his freedom. This is the beginning of the end of the relationship.

For a relationship to be happy, with the development of bright feelings for many years, a man and a woman must stand on equal terms, and God must be above them.

What to do with your hypertrophied female or male ego?

After all, the true bright feminine principle comes from, from, and not from a selfish ego.

What to do if you find the signs described above in yourself? First of all, you need to sincerely decide on your motives.

And don’t be lazy, put it in writing! If you work through this, accept it with your soul, positive energy will flow through you towards men and you will become more attractive to them.

Well, your negative karma due to accumulated egoism, or ancestral karma along the female line, of course, also needs to be cleansed. But this must be done competently, with or without, finding out the reasons and roots of the accumulated negative experience in your family.

Other reasons why a woman scares men away from her?

Another very common reason is the negative attitude towards men accumulated in a woman’s mind. A negative attitude is distorted attitudes and erroneous ideas. In other words, an inadequate attitude towards men, an inadequate, negative, categorical and stereotypical perception of them, which manifests itself in the well-known programs “all men are ...”, “all men are goats..., bastards...”, etc.

How to remove the negativity accumulated on men?

Get rid of grievances and complaints. Resentment towards men, if it lives in your heart, destroys your bright feelings, your soul, health and life, attracts troubles into your destiny, destroys the men around you and relationships with him. Work with resentment according to the article -
Write down in your workbook all the complaints against men in general and specific ones. Ask yourself - “Why do I take offense at men?”, “What infuriates, infuriates, and angers me most about men?”. And then, replace all negative beliefs (answers) with adequate, positive ones, those that your bright Soul tells you. And at this moment look at a man as a divine soul, which, just like you, is learning, going through its lessons on Earth, may be imperfect, make mistakes, repent, etc. Be sure to learn how to do this correctly in the article Do this task in several passes.
Form the most complete positive attitude towards men. Just write a creative essay on the topic “My best attitude towards men!” Write from the heart, with your heart, as if it is not you who are writing, but your divine Soul dictating to you and conveying its attitude. Draw images as you write and put into it your best attitude towards the most worthy men. Write why you respect and love worthy men, and what you wish for all men without exception. Wish great Good, Nobility and Courage to all men! This will make you attractive to such men :)
Write in writing, in any form, a prayer of repentance before the souls of all the men whom you despised, disrespected, infringed, towards whom you acted unfairly, selfishly, cruelly, with pride and arrogance. Repent before the egregor of men and before God for pride and resentment towards men. How to work with your pride, see the article -

Believe me, if you sincerely work out your attitude towards men in front of yourself according to all the above recommendations, there will definitely be positive changes!

A separate large block of reasons for karmic prohibitions on personal life is violations of the blocked spiritual heart (). In my opinion, these are generally the most difficult questions and corresponding lessons that a person goes through in the process of his evolution on Earth.